You’re probably reading the title and thinking “Early retirement is a lie” – she is so right! No one can retire early because it’s simply not possible. Well, I firmly believe it is financially possible, but calling it “early retirement” is a lie. You might call me the “Early Retirement Police” for saying this, but I don’t care.
Early retirement gets such great hype because everyone in America is burnt out from working too many hours at jobs they don’t like and not having enough of a gap between their earnings and their spending for them to be able to career change, so they start searching “How do I retire early”. Their goal isn’t to do nothing for the rest of their lives – their general goal is to do something else without needing to worry about money.
Why do I say early retirement is a lie then? If you had a larger gap between your spending and your earnings for many years at the point where you decided you wanted to change careers, what would you be doing? Well, if you have a healthy mindset around money where it is meant to be spent at some point and not hoarded forever, then you’d probably use some of your savings to allow yourself time to figure out what to do next and change careers.
People love saving for early retirement because you only have to save for N years and then you’re done! You can run away from your career that you hate so badly! We love time limits on anything. How often does the instructor at a fitness class say “You can do anything for 10 seconds, just 10 more seconds!” That’s exactly what saving for early retirement is – waiting on N more years to be able to live the life you want forever. It sure sounds pretty shiny. There’s a catch though – you need to be able to stick it out in a job you don’t like for those N years. You know who gets the best raises? The best bonuses? The highest performers. I don’t know about you, but if I hate my job, I’m pretty terrible at it.
If I love my job, I’m going to be the most badass rockstar you will ever meet.
I want to live a life where I am the most badass rockstar you will ever meet. I don’t want to stay in a job I don’t like just so I can save tons of money and retire early.
I live in a place I love. I have an amazing husband. We live in a condo that we love. We have an amazing community here in this place that we live. We have great options for exercising in ways that we both enjoy. We cook and eat delicious food.
What’s missing? The intellectual stimulation from a career I love. I know I’m not going to get that from retiring early and being outdoorsy all the time. We need balance in our lives and unfortunately our North American high-powered careers suck at that.
The reality of early retirement is that it is a career shift with a large nest egg so that you have the freedom to pursue a lower income lifestyle.
If you’re a white collar career driven person in today’s world, you are not going to want to give up the mental stimulation that your career brings you. You are going to find some other way to get that mental stimulation. Some people in the ER blogging community derive that new mental stimulation from writing and other creative pursuits. Have you noticed though that only high income people pursue hardcore early retirement while lower income people gasp change careers?
Maybe the people who were in lower income careers are on to something.
Why are we holding onto the notion that we need to have the higher income in order to be happy? Shooting for early retirement means that you’re still holding onto that notion. Why not take a lower paying job that will bring you more joy in life?
Life is not about money – it’s about joy. Sometimes money is a tool to get you there, a dangerous tool that you can wield beyond its good.